Wednesday 26 March 2014

The School Move

What a contrast between the school Esther and Ben went to in Dodoma and the one they have been attending in Nairobi.

Six days after arriving on Kenyan soil, Esther and Ben were thrust into a strange new world of school in the busy city of Nairobi. The change of school and the new system proved to be a huge, difficult challenge. For the first few weeks, I battled my children's tears, tantrums and even running-away-to-hide tactics on most school mornings.
It was hard for my children to accept that they had to go to school here. The original plan was to home-school in Juba but, suddenly, we found ourselves in Nairobi for longer. Just 3 days before we left Tanzania, Esther and Ben discovered that they would actually be going to a new school.
Intimidating news for anyone.
Even more intimidating when you are not expecting it! They barely had time to process the idea before walking into a classroom full of strangers, in a country that still felt brand new.

Many were the mornings when I drove back to our Nairobi home after stressful partings at classroom doors, tears streaming down my face, wondering if we were doing the right thing sending them to this new school so soon into their move to a new country. It hurts a mother's heart to see her children so upset and struggling.

Happily, nine school weeks later, Esther and Ben have finally settled into a rhythm and are happy to attend Braeburn School. We are so glad we persisted! It is an excellent school. The academic progress they are now making is wonderful to see.
Ben positively bounces into class each day!He comes home full of news and stories of all he has been doing with his classmates and teacher. He has presented us with a model of a castle and art work galore that he is proud to have made in class.
Esther comes home with a huge smile. She talks about Ancient Greeks and drama lessons, doing fractions with chocolate bars (that she can later eat!), lessons in Literacy where they learn about instructions by making popcorn (and, of course, later eating it!!). She even enjoys her Wednesday French classes, despite a rocky start! She is enjoying netball in Games Lessons- which is far more to her preference than the hockey lessons that she hated in February!
They both have kind, supportive teachers and are gradually making friends that they feel comfortable with.

These are some of the contrasts Esther and Ben have had to adapt to on the schooling front:

Dodoma                                                                                          Nairobi

No uniform and they rarely wore their shoes!        School uniform, PE kit uniform, shoes + socks

School finished at 2pm after a 07:40 start             School finishes at 3:30pm, after starting at 8:05am

One class per year group                                     Three classes per year group; so many people!

Class mates mostly Tanzanian, with Swahili            Vast international student body;
as their 1st language, which meant a slower            learning is faster paced
pace of learning, necessary                                    and expectations are higher
to accommodate the majority.

School bus with good friends: 10 mins max          Car journey with Terrifed Driver Mum,
                                                                           through traffic jams + scary roads!
                                                                           Journey time depends on traffic:
                                                                           can be 20 mins or up to an hour!

Lighter homework amount                                   Homework much heavier
                                                                           and less time at home to do it!

Sporting events few and far between                    More emphasis on Games and Sports.
                                                                           Joel +I have spent several afternoons
                                                                           watching E+ B in sports events!

Christian school with strong teaching of               Secular school. E +B miss Class Devotions,           Christian values                                                  Assemblies, Bible teaching + class prayers,
                                                                         which made them feel secure
                                                                         and very much cared for in Dodoma.

Fewer facilities for children to use.                      Well resourced private city school.
The much drier climate meant                              The rainy climate lends itself to the
that the sports area                                             vast, green sports field.
was a dusty, hard surface,                                   There is also more wealth in the school;              
exposed to Dodoma's hot sun.                            the music, computer, theatre facilities                                                                                                             are evidence of this.
                                                                          There is even an on-site cafe for parents!

It is just a different world, but one which our kids had to adapt to very soon into their transition.

Here are a few pictures...

1st Day at Braeburn:

Swimming Galas, complete with delicious, free refreshments for spectator parents! Here comes Ben:

Ben's super effort with backstroke!

World Book Day- kids in costume for a fun day of literacy activities: Here are The Gruffalo and Dorothy!

Esther, after finishing 20th out of 50 in her year-group Girl's Cross Country last Thursday:

 Ready for International Day last Friday: a fun school day of International activities: Esther represents Tanzania (with Joel as support) in her kanga dress, made in Dodoma. Ben represents England!

Ben took English cucumber sandwiches for the International Food Festival in the afternoon!

The International parade:


The food tents, with flags from many nations, where many languages could be heard as parents and families from all over the world congregate at this very international Nairobi school:

Ben poses with his class display of India while Little Brother looks admiringly at Big Brother!

It is a huge blessing to have this schooling opportunity in Nairobi, as I start to prepare more seriously for Home Schooling.  I think Home School will be our best option in Juba for the next academic year. It will be sad to take our children out of Braeburn after so much effort has gone into helping them settle there!
However, we are en-route for Juba. Nairobi is a temporary stop for us. If all stays calm in Juba, we should be on our way there from early July, at the end of Esther and Ben's academic year. While we are here, we will do our best to make the most of the education opportunities Nairobi has to offer!

Saturday 22 March 2014

Three

Joel is three!
It is fun opening presents, some of them all the way from England!

Despite not yet knowing many people in Nairobi, we had a lovely time celebrating his third birthday, with cake and snacks in the garden during the sunny afternoon.
We were pleased that a friend, Kay, from London could be with us on Joel's birthday weekend and also some friends from Dodoma who are staying in Nairobi for a few weeks. They are here to await the birth of their 5th child at a well reputed Nairobi hospital, so it was great to catch up with them and their 4 children. It was also fun for Esther, Ben + Joel to spend time with their Dodoma friends!
Joel had a star cake (which required extra research to bake, as the high altitude in Nairobi changes the way cakes cook in the oven!!), decorated by his brother and sister. He was a bit shy with all the attention, but Dad's shoulder was a good place to hide while everyone sang, "Happy Birthday"!!

Time for cake and snacks...

..and a snapshot with Kay and the birthday boy in our Nairobi backyard:
Nice memories of a happy day! :-)

Wednesday 12 March 2014

News from Nairobi

Life in Nairobi is so very different from our life in Tanzania!

One of the big things is that we really feel the busy-ness of Nairobi, being the bustling city that it is. The pace of life is so much faster than we are used to after Dodoma. I barely have time to sit at my computer to update "Living in Limbo"!
We feel rather like country bumpkins who have landed here from a different planet that was far less developed. We are struggling to get used to the bright lights and busy roads of a real capital city, as opposed to Dodoma which was only ever a capital city in name and by virtue of having a Parliament building. In every other way, Dodoma was slow-paced, peaceful, with little traffic and not much in the way of places to go or entertainment.
In contrast, I now seem to spend a fair bit of time sitting in my car, alternatively (depending on my mood) trying to enjoy the sights of Nairobi while stuck in traffic OR fighting off the frustration of being stuck in a hot metal box surrounded by a multitude of other vehicles!
Last week, I took these pictures. Our home is just a stone's throw away on the left...but I can't get there until everyone else moves!

Behind me, the traffic just keeps building up:

This is Saturday morning; we are hemmed in on every side!


Despite the heavy city traffic, we are discovering that Nairobi does have its advantages. There is plenty to do in Nairobi to provide entertainment, with lots of scope for family outings. It is amazing for us to have access to so many facilities after the acute lack of them in Dodoma! We want to make the best of this while we are here, so we have been out and about on some fun family outings on Saturdays...such as...

  1. Our visit to the Giraffe Centre, where you can stand up on a tall platform to feed the giraffes by hand, dropping cereal pellets onto their long, black, sticky tongues!




 

 It was amazing to get so close to these graceful creatures!

2. Another Saturday and this day's outing was to the Elephant Orphanage:
Initially unimpressed, even Ben could not fail to be charmed by our very close encounter with these gorgeous baby elephants! Seeing these abandoned babies being bottle-fed was a moving moment:

These young elephants are cared for after being discovered in the wild. Often their mothers have fallen victim to the wicked crime of poaching. Baby elephants cannot survive without their mothers. They need to be bottle-fed for 3 years and then they begin a slow programme to get them ready to move back into the wild. We were inspired by the fantastic work of the Sheldrick voluntary trust, helping these gentle giants survive in a harsh world.
It was incredible to get so close to the elephants...

 ... we even got to stroke a couple of the calves!

 We watched, enchanted, as they drank...
 ...and played:

We got a bit dirt-stained by flying mud-splats as these cute calves happily splashed in their waterhole! Our muddy decorations served as a little reminder of a great day out!
 

3. Last Saturday, we headed out for a wonderful walk (or bike-ride for Ben and Joel, who opted to take their bikes) at Nairobi's Karura Forest. We walked 5 and a half miles and everyone enjoyed the exercise in beautiful surroundings!

We enjoyed the pretty butterflies and loved the rushing waterfall and tall, shady trees:



It is a treat to be able to access these special places. The best thing is, there are still lots of other outings on the list of places we have yet to explore in Nairobi! Since we now think that we will be here until at least July, I had better get out my diary and start planning ahead to fit these in before our possible July departure to Juba!